Diamond got some criticism registration wall last week for engaging in this discussion. You're just his gym wife. Another bunch of idiots who take it seriously.
We chatted a bit awkwardly and I showered quickly and left him to it. Some features on this gay guy to get to know and fool around with require a subscription. I want to trust him, but I feel like I can't trust anyone right now. Please check your mail and click on the link in the email to complete your subscription.
In other words, it's a big part of the gay erotic imagination. In the 70s, when I was still mostly closeted, I had sex with women on a couple of occasions. I might be "biromantic" too, but I haven't had the chance to really find out, being in a hetero relationship for a number of years and only coming out to myself fairly recently.
We both laughed hard, and my friend heard us, gay guy to get to know and fool around with his eyes, and went back to his talk about sports and the way things were. No one would ever choose to be queer, so of course it must be something that I have no choice about, that I have no control over.
That split between -romantic and -sexual is something I learned about in via the asexual community, by the by. Most guys would have just shrugged it off and carried on. So the next day my friend was there again.
Why does he have to have feelings for you? But it is also often about power and dominance and occasionally more benevolent reasons. And now you find he cheats on you, like he cheats on his frau wife. As long as Ken from the office isn't over for dinner.