Short URL. Not Helpful 8 Helpful Just because you haven't been in a relationship doesn't mean you don't know who you are attracted to. To accept yourself - in my case my sexuality - requires that you're bold, that you're frank with yourself, and that you make time to do some serious soul-searching.
When I first got aroused by a man I wanted answers immediately so I spent the night with a single gay who has finally accepted that I am gay not realising I was going way to fast. If anyone tries to force an opinion on you that you do not agree with, such that your desires themselves are unnatural, sinful or symptoms of a mental disorder, look elsewhere for support.
Obviously, I just painted a partial picture. Everyone has their own battles and choices to make, and the norms of societies may not necessarily be normal for you.
Have people grown up straight and then turned to a lesbian or gay lifestyle in their adult years? For the love of God man I say to myself, why are you getting embarrassed? Not Helpful 16 Helpful There are many degrees of sexual and gender orientation and identity, and if you find you don't fit easily into one category, don't pick one!
Answer Wiki. Are those really the only two choices? Find some high quality personal stories about coming out, even some good novels. I feel this most when I'm at a party, single, drunk and surrounded by attractive women.